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Looking online for love

Jerry Reiser married his high school sweetheart. But that ended after 14 years. A softball umpire introduced him to his second wife. That, too, ended in divorce. Then two years ago, Reiser — now 58 — decided he wanted another long-term relationship — but found singles dances weren't cutting it. He turned to online dating. Reiser quickly received more than 70 matches. He dated a handful of women from the online roster, but only one stood out — Debbie Kuzma. More than a year and a half after the two met, they were married.

Let customers figure out who pays at their own pace

Dear Abby: I work in a candy store where things are pretty fast-paced and always busy. Please tell me how I should handle customers at the register — mothers and daughters, couples, friends — who fight over who should pay for the order. Two people will wave their cash at me and tell me not to let the other one pay. They actually expect me to choose!

My Answer/Billy Graham

DEAR REV. GRAHAM: I suppose it's wrong to be angry at God but I can't help it. I had a stroke a few months back, and now the doctor says I'll never walk as well as I once did. I've always been very active, and I don't understand why God did this to me. Do you have any answer? —G.K.

Thanksgiving tweaks

No other meal is as traditional as the Thanksgiving feast. If the host or hostess doesn't serve the family's favorite green bean casserole, Aunt Betty's sweet potato casserole or Grandma's five-cup salad, there could be some holiday discontent.

Horoscope/Jacqueline Bigar

Happy Birthday for Nov. 17, 2009: This year, possibilities occur through a very assertive person. That person could be you, and others could be reacting to your style. You will start looking at different ways of making money or opt to cut back. SAGITTARIUS has great ways to spend your money!

Husband's sex drive is driving his wife crazy

Insuring the young

SAN JOSE, Calif. —They met in college and knew instantly they were meant to be together. She planned to be a lawyer; he would get his MBA and work for a large firm. Nothing seemed beyond their reach when Robert Andrzejewski proposed to Jamie Young.

My Answer/Billy Graham

DEAR REV. GRAHAM: I believe in God, but where does Jesus fit into the picture? Why do I have to believe in Him, in addition to believing in God? —C.L.

My Answer/Billy Graham

DEAR REV. GRAHAM: My brother and sisters don't have much to do with me because they're all real religious and I'm not. You'll probably tell me I need God, and maybe I do, but aren't Christians supposed to be kind and loving? They sure aren't that way with me, so why should I be like them? —R.M.

Donated magazines offer help for waiting patients

Dear Abby: I work in a busy hospital with many patients from other countries. Our volunteer office collects magazines to distribute throughout the hospital for patients and visitors.

Horoscope/Jacqueline Bigar

Happy Birthday for Nov. 16, 2009: This year, you feel that you can make some powerful changes. Your birthday falls on a New Moon, signaling new beginnings in key chosen areas. Your magnetism and energy are enhanced, and you draw many opportunities. Relationships can have a new beginning. Your unusual charisma can work in your favor. A fellow SCORPIO might read you too clearly!

Grateful out-of-towner gets personal escort to airport

Dear Abby: On a Sunday afternoon in late September, I got hopelessly lost trying to find O'Hare Airport in Chicago. I pulled off the interstate at a neighborhood exit and asked a man parked at the curb for directions. He was Hispanic, and there was a bit of a language barrier, but he and his sister offered to lead me there.

Teen looks for ammunition in battle with peer pressure

Dear Abby: I'm a 14-year-old boy. I went to a party last weekend and some people pressured me to do some uncomfortable stuff. Can you advise me — and other teens — how to handle peer pressure? —ASHAMED IN ILLINOIS

My Answer/Billy Graham

DEAR REV. GRAHAM: Does God ever give up on some people? I have a cousin who just laughs whenever anyone starts talking about God, and he says he'll just take his chances when it comes time to die. Several of us in our family pray for him regularly but he looks like a hopeless case to me. —S.Y.

After-dark visitor next door raises neighbor's suspicions

Dear Abby: My neighbors, "John" and "Marcia," are such a nice couple, I'm not sure what to do. I don't know them all that well, but what's going on is extremely upsetting.

Saying 'I do' to eloping

So if running off to get married appeals to you — but your bride is leaning toward the big, expensive wedding — here are 10 logical ways to try to change her mind.

My Answer/Billy Graham

DEAR REV. GRAHAM: I know Christmas is still some weeks away, but I'm already getting uptight about it. It's always such a hectic time and we always end up spending far more than we planned to. To be honest, I don't really enjoy Christmas any more, although I know I ought to. Any suggestions? —C.M.

Art of medicine can require long hours, long waits

Dear Abby: May I respond to your column regarding excessive waits in doctors' offices (Sept. 1)?

Country at the center of pop

Taylor Swift has sold more albums than anyone in 2009. Kenny Chesney had the year's biggest concert tour. And Carrie Underwood — who will co-host tonight's CMA Awards with Brad Paisley — will make more TV appearances in the next month than Santa Claus.

Holiday cheers

With the holiday and entertaining season already gearing up, it's time to take a close look at your home bar. You have probably received or given a few gifts of spirits and wine over the years, but just how long does it last? First of all, alcohol doesn't spoil. That means no expiration date for most distilled spirits. As a matter of fact, you're probably going to expire and become a spirit long before that unopened bottle of good scotch or rum does. The rules are different when it comes to wine, champagne and liqueurs, though, and require a different way of thinking.

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