My Answer/ Billy Graham

DEAR REV. GRAHAM: We moved last year and are attending a new church, but I'm afraid the pastor has turned us off because he talks about money so much. I know they have a lot of debt on their building and need money, but shouldn't he stop focusing on this so much? Or should we just change churches? —B.E.

Dear B.E.: I don't know your church's full situation, of course, but have you shared your concern with your pastor, or with some of the leaders in the church? I encourage you to do so — not with a negative attitude, but out of a desire to help.

After all, your pastor is obviously concerned about the church's finances (especially in this economy) and I'm sure they are a burden to him. In his mind, therefore, it probably makes sense for him to bring these needs before the congregation on a regular basis.