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DEAR REV. GRAHAM: For many years, I took care of my disabled sister, and while I also had a job, I did almost everything for her. But a few months ago, she died peacefully in her sleep, and now I feel depressed and absolutely useless. How will God get me out of this? —D.L.
Dear D.L.: First, let me commend you for the love and compassion you showed to your sister.
I suspect there may be at least two reasons why you feel the way you do. First, obviously you and your sister were very close — and you are now grieving her death. When we lose someone we love, our grief can almost overwhelm us — often in unexpected ways.
The second reason may be because you found great fulfillment — and even joy — in taking care of your sister (although it was hard). Your duties gave you a sense of worth and satisfaction — but now you wonder if your life still has any value.
God knows your feelings, and my prayer is that you will turn to Him and discover the depth of His love for you.
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