My Answer/Billy Graham

DEAR REV. GRAHAM: Our three grandchildren live in a different part of the country and we almost never get to see them (maybe once or twice a year, at most). We'd like to be a good influence on them (especially spiritually), but how can we when they're so far away? —N.G.

Dear N.G.: Unfortunately this is a common problem today — one that would have been almost unknown a few generations ago. But times change, and increasingly families find themselves separated by great distances. This means they must make a special effort to keep in touch — which is what I hope you'll do.

Although you seldom see your grandchildren, go out of your way to keep in contact with them, to let them know you love them and care what's happening in their lives. Call them as often as you can; send them e-mails; remember special occasions like holidays and birthdays. Write them letters also from time to time; getting mail is still a special treat for most children. You may not hear back — but that's not the point; the point is to let them know you love them.